Why I Didn't Decorate for Christmas This Year Like in the Past
For the first time in my adult life, I didn’t go crazy decorating for Christmas this season. I don’t know about you, but it’s been a YEAR, and this time around snuck up on me faster than I could manage. I was surprised at my non-disappointment at not being able to pull out all the stops this season, per my usual perfectionist MO. Instead I found myself feeling actually, calm, for a change. I decided to enjoy that feeling and stick with it. And in order to maintain that feeling of actual enjoyment of the holiday season I forced myself to dial back on the decor, and focus on the things that make the season special for me.
I didn’t race to put up my tree. In fact, I just did it a few days ago. I had the kids bring down the decorations, and we only used a select few for the tree and here and there around the house.
I didn’t get upset when someone decided to hang a decoration where/how I normally wouldn’t. In fact, it was a relief to let someone else handle it for a change.
I stopped comparing myself and my efforts to those around me. I concentrated on what I was capable of doing well in the time I had available. I prioritized my family instead of my ego.
I volunteered to host the family Christmas Dinner. We had a lovely extended family gathering and I got to focus on prepping and cooking the holiday meal without any added stress.
We cut way back on the gift giving. We are focusing on mainly stocking stuffers this season since we decided on a family trip as our main gift to each other. It has taken a major weight off of our shoulders as we prepare to enjoy time together as a family.
I didn’t send Christmas Cards. This may be a non-negotiable for you, but it’s something I just couldn’t put on my plate this year, and I gave myself permission to be OK with not doing it. Since the invent of social media, I’m in touch with everyone I would already send a card to, and there’s really not much to update. I love these people, and they know it.
Not one member of my family was upset by these changes. You know why? Because I was present with them this season when they needed me. I wasn’t overwhelmed because I said NO to other things so I could say YES to them. And this year I finally feel like I’ve lived the magic of the season.
I wish you and yours a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
